How do you choose some one to share your life.it takes time, as per lord buddha.

A-   Do you think she enjoyes    cooking
B -   Do you think she can cook tasty food.
C. -   Do you think she is a expert cooking spegatti dish, roast meat, grilled fish, marinating food, pies, cakes, deserts, soups, salads, tasty cup of tea or coffee( ginger, cinnamon, herbal, cocowa, vanilla,lemangrass).
D  - Do you think she loves working alone or team player.
E -  Do you think she is a good house wife, friend, carring person, trustworthy, harmony thoughts, creative, religious, play healthy family role, compromise for win win solutions,
F  - Good health ( loves the truth or hide it for quick solutions). Thoughts govern the universe.it changes our destiny for good or bad.

Please send me your feedback , how you see things as per lord Buddha's teachings, and in general .
Thanks,
Kumara