If for company you cannot find a wise and prudent friend who leads a good life, then, like a king who leaves behind a conquered kingdom, or like a lone elephant in the elephant forest, you should go your way alone (per lord buddha)
How to Be Happy Alone:
He who sits alone, sleeps alone, and walks alone,
who is strenuous and subdues himself alone, will
find delight in the solitude of the forest.
healthy mind rejects suffering within. therefore individual breakaway from others
who are heading different directions for their happiness. win win situation brings harmony and happiness to all. (thoughts govern the universe.it changes our destiny for good)
Try doing things that you’ve never done before. Try not to have your
guard up and be open to all possibilities; you don’t know that you won’t
like something until you’ve tried it.
A great way to step out of your comfort zone is to go somewhere and do something new and fun each week.Another great thing about being alone is that no one is there to say no or disagree with your plans.
When you start experiencing new things, places and events, you will probably be meeting new people and make some new friends. This may seem difficult at first if you are shy but putting yourself in other people’s shoes might help. Remember that it may be hard for someone else to make friends too and you could be that one person that could help someone else out.
Remember to do things that benefit your inner-self and not for the purpose of finding “someone.” There shouldn’t be any pressure to look at people romantically.
Stepping out of your comfort zone and trying new things can lead to new friends and amusing experiences. It all starts with you smiling and saying hello to someone else. Try saying hi with a smile when you’re at the grocery store, while you’re walking down the street, when you’re meeting someone for the first time at a party, etc.
Whatever the situation is, just try to put yourself out there and you’ll gain more confidence over time, eventually this will turn into a new habit. Seeing other people smile is also contagious so if you start the smile train, others will reciprocate and you will both be in great moods.
A good way to keep yourself out of your comfort zone is to try a 30 day habit every month. Make sure to try new things, experiment and do things you might not do otherwise. You may even find some great habits you want to keep forever.
(ref to lord buddha's advise to first 60 arahath theros.) we are all different to each other.
A great way to step out of your comfort zone is to go somewhere and do something new and fun each week.Another great thing about being alone is that no one is there to say no or disagree with your plans.
When you start experiencing new things, places and events, you will probably be meeting new people and make some new friends. This may seem difficult at first if you are shy but putting yourself in other people’s shoes might help. Remember that it may be hard for someone else to make friends too and you could be that one person that could help someone else out.
Remember to do things that benefit your inner-self and not for the purpose of finding “someone.” There shouldn’t be any pressure to look at people romantically.
Stepping out of your comfort zone and trying new things can lead to new friends and amusing experiences. It all starts with you smiling and saying hello to someone else. Try saying hi with a smile when you’re at the grocery store, while you’re walking down the street, when you’re meeting someone for the first time at a party, etc.
Whatever the situation is, just try to put yourself out there and you’ll gain more confidence over time, eventually this will turn into a new habit. Seeing other people smile is also contagious so if you start the smile train, others will reciprocate and you will both be in great moods.
A good way to keep yourself out of your comfort zone is to try a 30 day habit every month. Make sure to try new things, experiment and do things you might not do otherwise. You may even find some great habits you want to keep forever.
(ref to lord buddha's advise to first 60 arahath theros.) we are all different to each other.
There never was, there never will be, nor is therenow, a person who is wholly blamed or wholly praised.
But the man whom the wise praise, after observing him day after day, is one of flawless character, wise, and endowed with knowledge and virtue
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